Saturday, March 27, 2010

Family Night

There is no simpler tradition in the home than implementing a weekly or monthly “Family Night.” This will be by far, one of the traditions your children will remember most consistently because of the bonding that occurs within your family unit.

You can create your “Family Night” to be one of zany games and fun laughter, or one of heartfelt sharing and listening. Either way, this night is to be sacred to your family. Don’t let outside activities or functions encroach upon this time together and request that all family members participate…even teens!

What should you do on your “Family Night?” That’s up to you! If you are choosing the “Fun- Laughter” approach ~ you might want to start with popping popcorn or making a dinner together in the kitchen. You can play games such as “Twister”, “Guesstures” or other family favorites that get you laughing with one another. Maybe you want to watch Home Videos and reminisce or watch a Comedy together. But never make fun of one another – remember that this is supposed to be a growing and bonding experience; not an isolating one.

If you choose to have a more heartfelt evening together as a family, you might opt for other ideas such as roasting one another and mentioning something you like or love about that person. You could work on scrapbooks together or pour over baby or photo albums from the past.

There are many, many ideas that can make your “Family Night” unique to your home and lifestyle. Whatever you choose use this time to get to know one another more intimately and encourage each other in their goals and dreams for their life.

6 Reflections:

  1. Very neat post. I just posted on Family Nights a few post back. I hope all is well.

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  2. This is really sweet... we used to have awesome family nights when I was still young and it simply bonds the family together like glue!

    Hope many families will be able to acknowledge its importance through your post :>

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  3. Family Night is pretty much sacrosanct at our house. We have it on Monday. I think a regular family night is just as important as family dinner each evening. Those experiences just solidify us as a family and helps our boys to know that our home really is a safe and happy place.

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  4. I like your family emphasis. We didn't always have a Family Night schedule, but we would quite regularly announce, "This is going to be a family night." We didn't want interference from time with our kids. So important. Good post.

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